http://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/en-USTue, 18 Nov 2008 01:12:31 GMTTue, 18 Nov 2008 01:12:31 GMTMicrosoft Spaces v1.1http://www.rssboard.org/rss-specification607400471857982888762zhaolingxiahttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!187.entry<div><font size=3>文摘——</font></div> <div><font size=3>“使自己处于宁静状态，集中精力，让思想操纵行动”。这是我在自己的QQ资料里写的一句话，没想到这句话和美国今年最畅销的一本书《The Secret》（中文译名《秘密》,中国城市出版社出版,作者朗达拜恩）的中心思想雷同了，只是这本书把人思想的力量更夸大了，它认为：人的思想不止可以操纵自己的行动，还能操纵自己周边的环境甚至于整个宇宙。宇宙就是我们的阿拉丁神灯，它听命于我们的每一个指令，不管是我们喜欢的还是讨厌的。所以要想让这个唯命是从的宇宙更好的为我们服务，我们必须首先搞清楚，我们真正需要的是什么。在一个人不能处于宁静状态的时候，他自己需要什么往往自己也不清楚，因为每个人脑子里都有无数错综复杂的观念，一个人只有在宁静的状态才可以把这些观念理清楚，最终确认自己真正想要的是什么。当我们确定了这一点的时候，我们的思想就会开始操纵我们的行动，操纵宇宙的磁场，那么接下来的结果就是，惟命是从的宇宙实现我们一个个不可思议的愿望。</font> </div> <p><font size=3>    2005-2007年的一波大行情结束了，很数人在猜测什么时候见底，有的人开始绝望，认为再也没有解套希望了。针对这些思想，我有自己的一套思路，希望与大家分享。一个人在青少年时期，思想尚不成熟，很容易就会对自己喜欢的人或物产生崇拜心理，感觉少了这个人或这首歌、这件礼物等，世界立刻会暗淡无光，人生也失去了意义。其实时过境迁，天还是那么高，水还是那么深，花草、树木还是那样青翠艳丽，每天的太阳还是会照常升起。唐诗达到了鼎盛，不好超越了，聪明的人们又创造了宋词，宋词辉煌过去了，又有了明清小说，永远不要为已经过去的辉煌而惋惜，总还会有更美好的未来值得期盼，不要因《西游记》的故事看完了而沮丧，还有更精彩的《水浒传》、《红楼梦》故事，美好的故事总会有结束的一天，新的故事更值得期待。2005-2007年的股市故事还在缓缓落幕，新的更值得期待的股市故事正在成为每一位投资者的愿望，让我们宁静下来，接受现实，集中精力，让思想操纵行动。</font><img src="http://c.services.spaces.live.com/CollectionWebService/c.gif?cid=7400471857982888762&page=RSS%3a+%e5%a4%84%e4%ba%8e%e5%ae%81%e9%9d%99%e7%8a%b6%e6%80%81%ef%bc%8c%e9%9b%86%e4%b8%ad%e7%b2%be%e5%8a%9b%ef%bc%8c%e8%ae%a9%e6%80%9d%e6%83%b3%e6%93%8d%e7%ba%b5%e8%a1%8c%e5%8a%a8&referrer=" width="1px" height="1px" border="0" alt=""><img style="position:absolute" alt="" width="0px" height="0px" 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style="font-size:12pt;font-family:宋体">反之亦然。</span></h2> <h2><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:宋体">致命的不完美，才加倍凸显了残留的美丽的珍贵。</span></h2> <h2><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:宋体">可能是年事渐长，有一天突然理解并接受了维纳斯的断臂和罗丹的巴尔扎克——</span></h2> <h2><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:宋体">那样巨大的不完美，时时刻刻提醒你，即便是有巨大缺陷的整体美，也是多么的可遇而不可求，并具有着一种别样的默默的震撼的张力。</span></h2> <h2><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:宋体">请不要将断臂的自责时常留给自己，罗丹才是那个洞悉生命本质的豁达之人。</span></h2> <h2><span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:宋体"></span> </h2> <h2>子曰未知生，焉知死，是典型的中国式逻辑，逃避了死亡的问题。</h2> <h2>我的逻辑恰恰相反：未知死，焉知生。</h2> <h2>雪飞，我知道你会一次又一次的像个孩子似的开始，富有尊严和充满乐趣的争取。</h2> <h2>只要我不肯放弃自己的生命，就不会放弃追求幸福的激情。我说过，我不会放弃自己的生命，我的父母恩赐于我的最珍贵的所有。</h2> <p>美在流动之中看见了生命，看见了青春，看见了爱情的流淌。——罗丹<span style="font-size:12pt;font-family:宋体"></span> </div></div></div></span></div><img 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href="http://xuefeiluan2008.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!C2BE2B3AFC84CDA5!1547.entry"><font color="#956633">自律并不苦，放纵也绝非真的自由</font></a></h4></div> <div> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">当你有哪怕一丁点儿指望着别人的念头时，你就变成了一个奴隶。</span><span style="font-family:宋体">生而为人，在这世上惟一能做的，就是做自己的主人。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们对自己发出命令，我们必须执行——</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们说要每天背五十个英文单词，就必须完成它；</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们说要跑步，就一定要跑；</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们说要努力工作，就必须努力。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">如果我们失败了，都是自我欺骗的恶果。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">骗自己，骗别人——我们对别人说爱它，我们说有责任感，但我们的诺言一钱不值。因为，我们知道，我们不是真的想要帮助别人，而是想要骗取别人的帮助。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">这一切，必须改变。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们在毕业一年内必须取得经济独力，不再拖累父母；</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们在成家立业生儿育女之前，必须具备抚养孩子的经济条件及心智，不然，就是视婚姻为合法色情；</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们必须在退休前挣够自己的养老金，以便不麻烦别人，不然，我们就是视工作为儿戏。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们只有在退休前每天努力才能做到这一点，惟有这样，在世俗的人间，才勉强配称自己的主人。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">然后，</span><span style="font-family:宋体">我们更努力，我们还可以突破时间与空间强加于个人的限制，拥有自己的自由，用我们的心智，享受天才们早已为我们开创的精神世界——科学的，宗教的，艺术的。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我们追求的幸福，最大的敌人是懒惰与自怜，最难克服的困难是缺乏环境及幸运的遇到好导师。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体"><font color="#1f497d">所以，我们只能依靠不停息的再教育与深刻反省来升华自己，我们必须跃出自我和环境，一点一滴的用挫败来理解真理。这是我要的幸福。</font></span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">然而，我们的不幸在于，我们的成功，只能是一路击败竞争者，而很难去同情失败者。因为，生命短暂，我们只能向前走。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">有人问，难道生活即是如此艰难残酷吗？</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我说：是的！</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">有人问，你没有觉得你的想法很可笑吗？</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我说：我只想讲生而为宇宙生灵的真话，不然听些屁话、说些屁话有什么意义！</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">也许，我们这几代中国人的命运是有一个上限的——我们可能有更高的目标，但我们的能力不支持这非分之想，我们的一生大致上只能如此，这是我们生而为中国人的现实。我们叹息着承认时空的局限。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">这世上有各种价值观，我以为，那都是每个人不想否认自己而找到的合理性言论。</span><span style="font-family:宋体">我相信，有些人即使什么也不做也很幸福，有些人一生都从索取中得到快乐，但我肯定，那不是属于我的幸福。</span></h2> <h2 style="text-indent:21.75pt"><span style="font-family:宋体">我的幸福是这样：对陌生人，我平等相待，力争不占丝毫的便宜；对亲人，付出，为我带来真实的快乐。</span></h2></div></div><img 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style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'">&quot;<font face="宋体">空的大脑是神的工作室&quot;！</font></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">___DUNDAS赠文摘</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">放松自己的身心，安静、从容入定，腾出一间&quot;空&quot;的大屋子，让失散、出走多日甚或多年的自由性灵回家，方可定能生慧、恍然大悟，是个体安身立命、神思妙悟的极境！是虔诚行者穷其终生的完美追求，有人跳出红尘，出世修炼；有人执着人文、道德、理性规范自律，但殊途同归。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">精神生活日益平庸化是科技理性异化、市场功利浮躁时代每一个体存在面临的最大的&quot;惘&quot;，生存使人们无法回避地过于看重物质需求，看轻抽象精神存在的意义、价值；快节奏近乎铁面无私的竞争使人们很忙碌地应付外部世界多变，而没法独自感受现实生活和内心的深刻体验，更没有对灵魂和信仰的神圣索思、虔诚叩问，人们集体无意识地&quot;天不怕地不怕&quot;！一次又一次的自然惩罚人类仍然执迷不悟、盲目乐观、高枕无忧，好了伤疤忘了疼！如很多初出茅庐的年轻人，在社会上打拼，生存危机使他们远离文化亲近技能，成了迷魂大法似的五颜六色广告的忠实俘虏，而费尽心机的广告就像地滩上算命的先生，勾引你掏钱，读书和思考简直是天方夜谭、痴人说梦！没时间关注精神绿洲的耕耘，面对日益高危频繁的怪异天气，政府要求退耕还林，让伤痕累累的草原、森林休养生息，面对沙尘暴似的浮躁，难道我们不应该呐喊：退躁还空、退躁还静吗？灵魂饥渴烦燥，精神萎靡不振，不满足、难受、空虚像白蚁侵食着点点滴滴的静谧，这是信息社会日益显露并无法回避的反思！</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">告别生存性的饥寒后，在金窝银窝或鸡窝鸭窝中想法活得高贵、洒脱，寻找失散多年的梦中情人——自由，有时&quot;难于上青天&quot;！富人，累；穷人，也累，但在追求一种高贵、鲜活的活法上是相通的。在影频、视频越来越占主导地位的网络时代，电视让人情不自禁地放下了思考，文字这种抽象符号编撰的经典并让读者在其中享受抽象思维的美感成为困局，没有基本的思考、想象，只是应对高大频猛的信息刺激，盲流、奴性就是这样生成的，电视直接用图像让观众受宠若惊、陶然自醉，忌讳思考、怀疑、批判等理性时代所开发的人之为人的个体主体性，通过语言进行抽象思考方能领悟的本质、真相远了，今日沉浸在电视文化中的人已经越来越丧失了领悟抽象思维美感这种神圣的能力，使一切讨论严肃精神问题的书籍都如同天书。这一切要在心静如水中细品，如同好东西要一个人用心去读，如姑娘阅读爱情一样细微！可见，这个世界最珍贵的资源就是安静、安静再安静！大广场、宽马路、大房子，到自然中云游，实际上，人们急不可耐地在寻找空、寻找静，生活在城市的人更是腹背受敌，噪音超标、魔天大楼如云、如洪水肆虐的车流、人流等感官刺激无孔不入，个体内心焦虑、压抑、孤独，总是挥之不去，一个人外在生活再丰富也要转化、消化成内心生活，如果没有安静就无法消化。　　　　　　　</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'">   <font face="宋体">可见，饥寒交迫不再成为人类存活的直接威胁后，人生最好的境界就是丰富、温馨、细腻的空静。空静，是因为摆脱了外界虚名浮利的诱惑；丰富，是因为拥有了内在精神世界的宝藏；温馨，是因为能够实实在在地享受人与神、人与人、人与自我之间的真善美；细腻，是因为人能够从头到尾、原汁原味地做一件自己得心应手的事，一切太喧嚣的事业和一切太张扬的感情今天都值得怀疑，正如莎士比亚对生命的嘲讽；&quot;充满了声音和狂热，里面空无一物&quot;。无论我们生活周围变得如何喧嚣与躁动，哪里又找不到一片安静的角落呢？关键是我们自己愿不愿意去寻找，或者说找到了又能否守住自己的这一份天赋的空静？退一万步讲，即使我们的现实处境空静不下来，至少我们还能经营自己心灵这块净土，还可以守望自己的精神家园，不论层次高低，这毕竟是自己的私产，&quot;久在樊笼里，难得复自然&quot;！倘若这一方领地都失守、荒芜、污染、转让了，一个人活的真就味同嚼蜡！</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">如果一个屋子里被东西堆放得满满实实的，买来再好的新家具想摆也挤不进去；如果刚刚吃过饱饭，肠胃里食物鼓鼓囊囊的，再好的美味佳肴摆在眼前也没有食欲；如果办公室的案头被各种资料、杂乱书刊积压得密密麻麻，透不过气来，思维空间慢慢就会被封闭起来，像蜘珠网一样遭到封殺；如果诚见、偏见、邪见等先入为主的观念占据了心头，一个品行再好的人，他的综合印象也不会在你的心里落地生根；满脑子的零散知识像戈壁滩上的乱石无序堆积，像干旱草原上零乱的腐尸，刀枪不入，新观念、思想、真理也不可能进驻；漫长的人生苦旅，像小草一样，一次又一次经受着寒来暑往的考验、积淀、丰富、进化，比如，对财富，多少人拼命不择手段地索取、占有，生怕得到的太少；岂知&quot;一国兴来一国亡，六朝兴废太匆忙&quot;留下的累心情；对权力，多数人贪得无厌、煞费苦心，生怕自己的官小，不能平步青云、飞黄腾达，岂知弄权一时凄凉万古；对名利，往往耿耿于怀、牵肠挂肚、如痴如醉，生怕自己比别人差，耗干精力在病房养老送终；在市场上，秀色可餐、琳琅满目的诱人商品生怕自己错过；在知识的海洋，尤其在这个日益被严重污染了的知识海洋，什么都想学，什么文凭都想混，而精专的确寥寥无几，能创新的鳳毛麟角，岂知&quot;为学者日益，为道者日损&quot;；相反，城市化进程中，马路建设规划越来越宽阔明亮、空旷宏大，城进人退，牺牲良田换来的大广场越来越象莫斯科紅場、北京天安门广场，并成为各省市追求效仿、政绩攀比的硬件时尚，大广场真成了城市的经典力作和空间艺术，大面积的大房子成了市民有钱后升级换代的终极追求，可在这精彩妩媚的宽大、空旷、广阔的追求中，多少人的心情变大了，反而情不自禁地越来越狭隘、自私、冷默等繁杂情感与日俱增、积重难返，心浮气躁、斤斤计较、身心疲惫的憔悴内伤根由在心空被无穷无限地占有，像贪婪的房地产业！这是人类最终的本钱、原生地，谁来为&quot;空&quot;买单？人类失&quot;地&quot;就像失&quot;空&quot;一样可怕，地少了，空间就小了，空间小了，狭隘、自私、怨恨、暗算就多了，虚情假意就像瘟疫一样流行、传播，真心实意甚至会在功利、利益的盘算中最终消失，成为偏妃、属人，没有空的思想、审美、信仰、终极会最终象恐龙一样绝迹，地球居民只要听居委会的安排就行，接受社保部门的救助就行，人把自己送进了自己营造的笼子里，关上门，上了锁，变成了宠物，身心退化并行。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">这里印度神学家奥修的名言始终让我警觉、自勉：&quot;空的大脑是神的工作室。&quot;就像要定期清理河床上的淤泥一样，一个人必须不时地清理积压、沉淀在自己生活周围的垃圾、心灵里的垃圾，进行那怕是撕心裂腹的删除、填埋，还生活、生产、工作环境一片蓝天、白云、阳光、绿色、自然的风、纯洁的雨，倾听天空鸟儿自由飞翔时真实叫声，她们没有社会化、城市化，究竟谁文明？感受春夏秋冬真实的轮回，感受生命真实的生老病死苦的循环，把自己真实的生命链接到原生、广袤的宇宙母体深处，勿忘&quot;忙于一生，空忙一场&quot;的必然宿命，品悟&quot;跳出三界外，不在五行中&quot;的佛家教诲，那么，人的想像力、创造力、快乐感、好奇心、幸福感就会因&quot;空&quot;的境界重新被激活、唤醒、再生。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">空的境界是宗教中的至上追求和目标，佛教教义把这一理念作为禅宗教义的临摹标本，&quot;天地风雷，四大皆空、唯空常住&quot;，&quot;心即是空，心即是佛，佛即是心，心外无佛&quot;，由空到佛或由佛到空就是一个否定小我的象形字，同时，非常严肃地道破了一种价值观，百川归海、万法归宗、殊途同归，虽然是不同的修为必定为着一个空的圣地昂首阔步、风雨同舟、荣辱与共、患难与共，这都需要一种&quot;舍己利它、公而忘私之空，丢弃小我得大我之空，无我方为永恒我之空，放下、舍己、超然的觉悟、谨慎的修为是佛法所言的个体修为的空境、上德、终点！不在不同年龄如停留在不同的季节，对空的追求和领悟有着天壤之别！青年是一个煽风点火、征服狂妄的风暴，总觉得完全占有这个世界才过瘾，理想、现实什么都要拿下，二十几岁，风华正茂、旁若无人、心气甚高的人多数都会如此热血沸腾、充沛的精力、不可一世；三十而立时，就要在五花八门、灯红酒绿的目标中选择发展，牢记凡欲难舍誓愿舍、舍多得精，也许能够有为；四十不惑时，如果还想在钱权交益的赌场上继续拼搏，拿着有限开始衰退的时间、精力入股投资已经是非常可怕的冒险，舍我求稳、求空、求道已经不早了，至少要修缮自己空的净土，远离污染、是非、颠倒、梦想，在没有退路中还原，不惑的品质在于坚定的信念、信仰常常与自己形影不离、宠辱不惊、去留无意，空旷的心灵、空旷的精神殿堂、空旷的居室应该都有浓郁的&quot;空空如也&quot;之禅机；五十知天命时节，更是在空旷的田野、原野像一位孤侠在那深秋的茫茫大草原上自由自在、风神潇洒地散步，常与天地精神往来、飞升、翻滚，聚四方之灵之能，心随空之大道逍遥漫步，虽然立足尘世，比如空空的屋子、空空的桌面、空空的头脑，可以避免一切所知障对眼睛的刺伤、刺痛，正如&quot;动极生静、静极生动&quot;空至极处才有灵生、如有神助！创新就是这样泯灭的！</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">普及空观践行空道，起码可以让贪得无厌的人类学会节约、节俭，让修养了数亿年的地球上有限的金、木、水、火、土这些与人类生生不息、相生相克的基本资源能够长存，继续支撑一个风和日丽的绿水青山式的诺亚方舟；在空的理念中，让人类学会沉浸身心、静默观想，与灵魂屈膝谈心，用温柔中和的人文修养构建一个持久、健康的人文精神家园，避免不定期魂不守舍的大忧大患寒流侵袭，让这个空的世界里布满、还原本真不虚的正义、自由、平等、博爱、民主、神圣的的精灵，空追求的极致就是&quot;放下屠刀、立地成佛&quot;的瞬间速成、即成的境界，放下、舍弃、选择，在佛与魔中取舍、在生与死中定舵，个人的苦累、世人的苦累自然会淡化，领略那种餐风露宿的释然、辟谷清肠的轻松、空空如也的仙风道骨，会空善空者，富人不善空者会是穷人；穷人善空者会是富人，饱和、拥挤、阻塞、堵涌的惘象的及时清除，才会有栩栩如生、旭日东升的永恒生命。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span></div></div><img src="http://c.services.spaces.live.com/CollectionWebService/c.gif?cid=7400471857982888762&page=RSS%3a+%e6%94%be%e6%9d%be%e8%87%aa%e5%b7%b1%e7%9a%84%e8%ba%ab%e5%bf%83%ef%bc%8c%e5%ae%89%e9%9d%99%e3%80%81%e4%bb%8e%e5%ae%b9%e5%85%a5%e5%ae%9a&referrer=" width="1px" height="1px" border="0" alt=""><img style="position:absolute" alt="" width="0px" height="0px" src="http://c.live.com/c.gif?NC=31263&amp;NA=1149&amp;PI=73329&amp;RF=&amp;DI=3919&amp;PS=85545&amp;TP=zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com&amp;GT1=zhaolingxia">健康与保健http://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!183.entry#commenthttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!183.entryThu, 11 Sep 2008 03:35:33 GMT0blogentryblogentryBlog entryhttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!183/comments/feed.rsshttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!183.entry#comment2008-09-11T03:35:33Zhttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!179.entry<div><font size=3>       <font face="宋体">妈妈，老师</font><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span></font> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt">                                  ——<font face="宋体">写于教师节</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt">                                                                <font face="宋体">凌霞</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span> <p style="text-indent:21pt"><span style="font-size:10.5pt"><font face="宋体">陪妈出了院、又住院，住了院、又出院，心情大起大落、循环往复，住院时担惊受怕，出院后如释负重，接着是办理结账手续、跑医疗报销、送汤送水。。。。。。不知不觉又听说教师节要到了。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span> <p style="text-indent:21pt"><span style="font-size:10.5pt"><font face="宋体">妹说，昨天去看妈，她老人家嗜睡，脚肿手肿，头总是无力下垂，还是话很少，最长的一句就是&quot;早点回去休息吧&quot;，担心孩子太劳累。我不停回想起妈当年面带微笑、嗓音明亮、身材颀长、亭亭玉立讲台的风采，哭了。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span> <p style="text-indent:21pt"><span style="font-size:10.5pt"><font face="宋体">爸去世两年了，妈也许急着去会他了，传说夫妻中一个去了，另一个也不久，虽然大千世界周围人们陪伴着，依然忙忙碌碌，但终生恪守共起居、常说话的就一人，他人都进入不了这个组合。少年夫妻老来伴，伴走了，剩下那个心底的孤独、寂寞、悲凉无人知晓，真能像杨绛那样，在女儿钱媛、丈夫钱钟书先后离去、却还乐观写书度日的，实属太超脱伟大！</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span> <p style="text-indent:21pt"><span style="font-size:10.5pt"><font face="宋体">其实妈也算超脱、豁达这一类的。少女时代，双脚吊在高椅上摇啊摇的年龄，被病重的父亲托付给一表人才的、我们的爸爸，却没有得到好命运。经历了许多动荡的政治变迁，终于拨开云雾见青天，才过上安宁祥和的晚年。其间，那些忍受不了的，该离婚的离了，该重嫁的嫁了，而妈始终与心爱的人不离不弃、相濡以沫。更为伟大的是，在爸离开北京、远赴铁路工地的日子里，妈艰辛地养大了三个在校是好学生、下乡是好知青、工作中都争气的好孩子——不是自夸，因为妈对得起我们，我们也要对得起妈！</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span> <p style="text-indent:21pt"><span style="font-size:10.5pt"><font face="宋体">更伟大的是，妈妈始终是一位优秀教师，一丝不苟、认真育人，她面对命运没有退缩，没有怨恨，仍把爱给了更多的孩子。就连最顽皮的学生，也会在她摔倒时，用幼小的肩膀背她去医院，还以投桃报李之师生深情。如今，热爱她的学生五湖四海、桃李遍天下。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span> <p style="text-indent:21pt"><span style="font-size:10.5pt"><font face="宋体">所以，妈妈：我们要把&quot;伟大&quot;加冕与您，您用平凡的一生，诠释不平凡的认同；您用自己的渺小，教会我们&quot;伟大&quot;的意义；您是当之无愧的妈妈老师。。。。。。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt"></span> <p style="text-indent:21pt"><span style="font-size:10.5pt"><font face="宋体">母亲——教师节快乐！</font></span></div><img src="http://c.services.spaces.live.com/CollectionWebService/c.gif?cid=7400471857982888762&page=RSS%3a+%e5%86%99%e4%ba%8e%e6%95%99%e5%b8%88%e8%8a%82&referrer=" width="1px" height="1px" border="0" alt=""><img style="position:absolute" alt="" width="0px" height="0px" src="http://c.live.com/c.gif?NC=31263&amp;NA=1149&amp;PI=73329&amp;RF=&amp;DI=3919&amp;PS=85545&amp;TP=zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com&amp;GT1=zhaolingxia">http://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!179.entry#commenthttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!179.entryTue, 09 Sep 2008 02:28:14 GMT1blogentryblogentryBlog entryhttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!179/comments/feed.rsshttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!179.entry#comment2008-09-09T02:28:14Zhttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!174.entry<p>  <p>引用 <blockquote><a href="http://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!173.entry">真爱</a><br> <div> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'">                           <font face="宋体">真爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'">                                               <font face="宋体">赵凌霞</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在金钱的物欲中</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">也许我们正在失落真爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在灾难的降临时</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">我们也许将要找回真爱</font></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">相信还有真爱吗</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不光长留在</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为孩子撑起重压</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">父母的血肉躯体里</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">妻子给丈夫</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">最后的呢喃中</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">也</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在老总理白发间倏地丛生</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在播音员泪流中哗哗倾淌</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在救援者风餐露宿挑战生命时张扬</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在无数双手慷慨解囊后重现</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">那一瞬</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">天上与地下接壤</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">人间与地狱相撞</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">顷刻一切</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">有起有落</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">有塌有陷</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">有来有去</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">有生有灭</font></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">只留</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">真爱之心</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">相信</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">真爱的保证吗</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">那就</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的楼房</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再结实一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的校舍</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再坚固一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的预测</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再及时一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的公路</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再宽阔一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的药品</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再严格一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的食物</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再洁净一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的公仆</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再尽心一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们富裕的资助</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再广泛一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">相信</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">真爱的合力吗</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为了无数的母亲</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不再痛不欲生</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为了无数的孩子</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不再伤痕累累</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为了让我们爱的人</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不再惊恐悲戚</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为了让我们爱的世界</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不再颤抖屈服</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">总有一天</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">我们的爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一定可以</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">扭转乾坤</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">主宰命运</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让无数个汶川</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">瓦烁中崛起新楼</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">卧龙般漫山翠竹</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">九寨般湖泊明镜</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">阿坝般雪山晶莹</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">羌寨般枫叶火红</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">废墟处绽放杜鹃</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">泥石流后山泉更纯</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">相信吗</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">只有真爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让世界永恒</font></span></div></blockquote><img src="http://c.services.spaces.live.com/CollectionWebService/c.gif?cid=7400471857982888762&page=RSS%3a+%e7%9c%9f%e7%88%b1%ef%bc%88%e7%bb%99%e5%9c%b0%e9%9c%87%e7%81%be%e5%8c%ba%ef%bc%89&referrer=" width="1px" height="1px" border="0" alt=""><img style="position:absolute" alt="" width="0px" height="0px" src="http://c.live.com/c.gif?NC=31263&amp;NA=1149&amp;PI=73329&amp;RF=&amp;DI=3919&amp;PS=85545&amp;TP=zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com&amp;GT1=zhaolingxia">http://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!174.entry#commenthttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!174.entryMon, 19 May 2008 02:41:23 GMT0blogentryblogentryBlog entryhttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!174/comments/feed.rsshttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!174.entry#comment2008-05-19T02:41:23Zhttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!173.entry<div> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'">                           <font face="宋体">真爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'">                                               <font face="宋体">赵凌霞</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在金钱的物欲中</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">也许我们正在失落真爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在灾难的降临时</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">我们也许将要找回真爱</font></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">相信还有真爱吗</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不光长留在</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为孩子撑起重压</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">父母的血肉躯体里</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">妻子给丈夫</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">最后的呢喃中</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">也</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在老总理白发间倏地丛生</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在播音员泪流中哗哗倾淌</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在救援者风餐露宿挑战生命时张扬</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">在无数双手慷慨解囊后重现</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">那一瞬</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">天上与地下接壤</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">人间与地狱相撞</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">顷刻一切</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">有生有灭</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">有来有去</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">有起有落</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">有升有降</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">只留</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">真爱之心</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">相信</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">真爱的保证吗</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">那就</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的楼房</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再结实一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的校舍</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再坚固一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的预测</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再及时一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的公路</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再宽阔一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的药品</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再严格一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的食物</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再洁净一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们的公仆</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再尽心一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让我们富裕的资助</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">再广泛一些</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">相信</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">真爱的合力吗</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为了无数的母亲</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不再痛不欲生</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为了无数的孩子</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不再伤痕累累</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为了让我们爱的人</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不再惊恐悲戚</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">为了让我们爱的世界</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不再颤抖屈服</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">总有一天</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">我们的爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一定可以</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">扭转乾坤</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">主宰命运</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让无数个汶川</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">瓦烁中崛起新楼</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">卧龙般漫山翠竹</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">九寨般湖泊明镜</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">阿坝般雪山晶莹</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">羌寨般枫叶火红</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">废墟处绽放杜鹃</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">泥石流后山泉更纯</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">相信吗</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">只有真爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">让世界永恒</font></span></div><img src="http://c.services.spaces.live.com/CollectionWebService/c.gif?cid=7400471857982888762&page=RSS%3a+%e7%9c%9f%e7%88%b1&referrer=" width="1px" height="1px" border="0" alt=""><img style="position:absolute" alt="" width="0px" height="0px" 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<div>小熊确实有很多肝胆相照的好朋友，但这些朋友对她进军公关领域没有太大帮助。她性格爽直，富有亲和力，和同龄人很容易打成一片，但和高层领导和老板打交道时，她却有些怯怯的。她有机会结识很多位高权重之人，但逢年过节，她只记得给自己的好朋友群发短信。有时，她也意识到自己的不足，但她习惯用“君子之交淡如水”来解释自己的行为，因为在传统教育里，远离权贵似乎是清高的表现，刻意经营似乎是谄媚的象征。 <p>其实，小熊就是我们大多数人的一个缩影。大部分人都善于结识新朋友，但却忽略了“保养”和“推进”朋友关系，所以熟人永远只是熟人，无法成为帮你两肋插刀的朋友。与人交往，你也许需要一点勇敢和一点幽默。维护人际关系，却需要付出时间、精力和耐心。如果你能从经营人际关系中体会到付出的快乐</div><img src="http://c.services.spaces.live.com/CollectionWebService/c.gif?cid=7400471857982888762&page=RSS%3a+%e4%bd%a0%e7%9a%84%e4%ba%a4%e9%99%85%e5%8a%9b%e8%83%bd%e5%90%a6%e9%80%9a%e5%90%83%ef%bc%9f&referrer=" width="1px" height="1px" border="0" alt=""><img style="position:absolute" alt="" width="0px" height="0px" src="http://c.live.com/c.gif?NC=31263&amp;NA=1149&amp;PI=73329&amp;RF=&amp;DI=3919&amp;PS=85545&amp;TP=zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com&amp;GT1=zhaolingxia">http://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!172.entry#commenthttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!172.entryFri, 09 May 2008 12:03:53 GMT0blogentryblogentryBlog entryhttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!172/comments/feed.rsshttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!172.entry#comment2008-05-09T12:03:53Zhttp://zhaolingxia.spaces.live.com/Blog/cns!66B3C1F209585B3A!170.entry<div> <h4 style="margin-bottom:0px">积极心态灿若星辰</h4> <div> <div> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312"><font size=3><font color="#000000">人生在世如能从事自己内心最喜欢并一定能做好的工作那是最幸福的。但这世上有太多的无奈，太多的别无选择，事实上大多数人终其一生从事的都不是自己最喜欢的工作，而成功人仕之所以成功根本就在于不喜欢做的工作也能做好。<span lang=EN-US></span></font></font></span> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt"><font size=3><font color="#000000"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312">美国著名心理学博士艾尔森对世界<span lang=EN-US>100</span>名各领域中的杰出人士做了一项问卷调查，结果让他十分惊讶</span><span lang=EN-US><font face="Times New Roman">—</font></span><span lang=EN-US style="font-family:楷体_GB2312">61%</span><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312">的成功人士承认，他们所从事的职业并非是内心最喜欢做的，至少不是心目中最理想的。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312"><font size=3><font color="#000000">苏珊出身于音乐世家，她非常喜欢音乐，却阴差阳错地考进了大学的工商管理系。尽管不喜欢这个专业，但她学的很认真，每学期各科成绩均很优秀。毕业时她被保送到麻省理工学院攻读<span lang=EN-US>MBA</span>课程，后来成绩突出的她又拿到了经济管理专业的博士学位。<span lang=EN-US></span></font></font></span> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312"><font size=3><font color="#000000">如今已是美国证券业风云人物的苏珊依然心存遗憾：“老实说，至今为我仍说不上喜欢自己所从事的工作。如果能够重新选择，我会毫不犹豫地选择音乐。”<span lang=EN-US></span></font></font></span> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt;tab-stops:5.0cm"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312"><font size=3><font color="#000000">艾尔森博士问她：“你不喜欢你的专业，为何学得那么棒？同样你不喜欢眼下的工作，却也能做得那么优秀呢？”“这是我应尽的职责，必须以积极的心态认真对待。这是对工作负责，也是对自己负责。”<span lang=EN-US></span></font></font></span> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt;tab-stops:5.0cm"><font size=3><font color="#000000"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312">苏珊的话很耐人寻味</span><span lang=EN-US><font face="Times New Roman">—</font></span><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312">“这是我应尽的职责”。正是这种“在其位，谋其政，成其事”的敬业精神，让她赢得了令人瞩目的成功。<span lang=EN-US></span></span></font></font> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt;tab-stops:5.0cm"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312"><font size=3><font color="#000000">很多人无法改变自己在工作和生活中的位置，但完全可以改变其对所处位置的态度和方式，自然也会因此找到许多的乐趣，因此拥有一份骄傲的人生。<span lang=EN-US></span></font></font></span> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt;tab-stops:5.0cm"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312"><font size=3><font color="#000000">是的，事情做的好坏的差别不是有没有能力，而是看当时身心所处的状态。如果你一直使自己的身心处在“低落”的状态，就永远别想能够发挥潜能；若是你总是以积极的状态去面对你当下的工作，那么就必然能作出你意料之外的成绩来。换句话说，你会有什么样的行为跟你的能力关系不大，而是跟你的身心所处的状态密切有关。因此，你若是想改变自己做事的能力，那你就改变自己当时身心所处的状态，这样便可以把蕴藏多年的无限潜能发挥出来，做出惊人的成绩。<span lang=EN-US></span></font></font></span> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt;tab-stops:5.0cm"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312"><font size=3><font color="#000000">为了事业的成功和生活幸福，必须建立一种积极的心态。在当前巨大压力的社会背景下，要怎样的人生，完全决定于你对人生的诠释、对幸福的理解和对成功的期待。<span lang=EN-US></span></font></font></span> <p style="margin:0cm 0cm 0pt;text-indent:26.25pt;tab-stops:5.0cm"><span style="font-family:楷体_GB2312"><font size=3><font color="#000000">积极的心态是智慧的催化剂，是走向人生成功的指向标。有了积极的心态，就有了积极的工作和积极的生活。在积极心态的支配下，让我们磨砺一颗坚强的心，一双智慧的眼睛，透过岁月的风尘，寻觅到辉煌灿烂的星辰。（</font></font></span></div></div></div><img src="http://c.services.spaces.live.com/CollectionWebService/c.gif?cid=7400471857982888762&page=RSS%3a+%e7%a7%af%e6%9e%81%e5%bf%83%e6%80%81%e7%81%bf%e8%8b%a5%e6%98%9f%e8%be%b0&referrer=" width="1px" height="1px" border="0" alt=""><img style="position:absolute" alt="" width="0px" height="0px" 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style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">每天坐在</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">竹椅上</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">打瞌睡</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">和</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">回忆</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">妈妈说</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">她记得</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">童年的庆麟哥哥</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span 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face="宋体">的日子</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">因为嫁给</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一个正直的</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">说真话的</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">被流放的爱人。。。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">妈妈说</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">那些时代</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">灾难一场</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">又一场啊！</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一生经历</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">生死别离</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">晚年盼来</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">亲人们团聚</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">很知足</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">当过优秀教师</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">进了人民大会堂</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">教了那么多学生</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">能得到那么多爱</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">很知足</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">妈妈说——</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">现在的时代</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">好像孩子们</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">没有灾难</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">但是</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不像我们</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">很知足很知足</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-indent:131.25pt;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">女教师素描（母亲组诗之四）</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">八十三岁</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">的母亲</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">躺床上</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">梦见</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一大群</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">黑色蝴蝶</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">忽远忽近</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一条</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">幽深的隧道</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">里面也</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">很黑</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">偶尔传来蝙蝠</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">的尖叫</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">她惊叫一声</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">女儿的名字</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'">——<font face="宋体">晓霞</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">晓霞是她</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">身边的</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">光！</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">忙得不耐烦的</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">晓霞来了</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">问她：</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">哪里不舒服？</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">她想想说：</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">没  有</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">又补充：</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">没什么！</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">习惯了——</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一生不诉苦</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">童年时</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">总是第一名的</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">庆麟哥哥猝死</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">刚送走</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">黑发人的</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">白发父亲</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">抱病</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">也去了</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">母亲寡居</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">靠青涩女儿</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">教家馆</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">补贴家用</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">爱上一个</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">才华横溢的</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">南方人</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">却给她带来</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">大半辈子</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">西南流放</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">的灾难</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">还  有</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">落落寡欢</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">的脾气</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">不离不弃</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">同甘共苦</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">养育了</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">三个子女</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">还给满家满屋</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">绣满花</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">满脸满眼是她</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">慈祥的笑容。。。</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">满头青丝</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一根根</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">银白了</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">里面曾经藏着</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">她的快乐</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">和忧伤</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">现在</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">一根根</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">落下</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">越稀、越少</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">哪怕只剩</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">十几根</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">每天仍然</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">认真地</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">梳头、盘辫</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> <p style="layout-grid-mode:char;text-align:justify"><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"><font face="宋体">象讲台上</font></span><span style="font-size:10.5pt;font-family:'宋体'"></span> 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